Life has put me in a terrible mess. A cracked ring finger on the lefthand is not the only thing thats going wrong. After a long time, I realized that my personal life is also in a mess, and Iam 28 going on 29. I have been looking for that special one (after the first breakoff) and whenever I thought I met one (@bar, @train,@concerts etc), I realize thereafter that I have been wrong. That I will not be able tolive my life with the 'one'.
I, as an Indian, believe in only one marriage for one life, and so there have been multiple times, when I had to refuse women because I knew things would not work out. Women on the other hand think Iam cute,intelligent, have a good job and make good money, cultured, friendly,caring, a-keeper and so the vicious cycle repeats on. Lets be friends or Iam confused with my life right now has been the excuses that I used..And when I think I can find whom I need, whom I have been looking for, hope God will be good enough not to make me taste my own medicine. I, the born athiest, and spiritual is ready to pray to any God to make this work. Just pray for me and my life. This is important to me. Amen!
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I believe that love is not something that you choose - it just happens. You cannot force it and it does not always happen when you want it to. Life is unpredictable and just because you choose one path and close the doors to the others, it doesn't mean that life will work out exactly as you planned. Be patient and let life play itself out - it will be more relaxed and will probably turn out better than you could have planned.
Things will happen when they are meant to happen. You can't force them, look for them, or change things to make them work, they just will work. Maybe you are not mature enough for a relationship, sometimes I wonder that same thing about myself. It is not about age, it's about experience & making sure you know what you want & what you have to offer someone once you do get into a relationship w/ someone. I will end this w/ saying just be patient & "the one" will sweep you off your feet when you least expect it!!
Wow. Thanks to people for pouring their heart out. I got my next topic, whether something can be changed to affect a relationship and how is that related to maturity. Let me think over too.
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I agree that life is unpredictable! There was a time that I thought relationships were a bunch of B.S. but then I fell in love. So perhaps you need to convince yourself that love is shit in order to find your true love;)
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