This is going to be a bold topic to deal with.
How much time should you give yourself before you sleep with your date?
Iam sincerely asking for opinions and hope this one would draw some good opinions. Remember, this is true for both guys and gals who wants to love life and are based in US.
8 comments:
wait until marriage. it makes it special.
never. it just screws everything up.
A couple should sleep together whenever both people are emotionally ready. I think that if you can't talk about sex together then you shouldn't be having it. No rush.
This is my blog and so i should comment too.
To me its very situational and personal. If both the persons know each other (by any means of communication as email, chat, phone etc) to a certain extent, have trust in each other then time should not be constraint....2 days and 2 weeks are same.Sex is natural outburst of inner want..and it is mutual so no one should be guilt ridden about the timing of it.
I think you are so right about the month time limit. I say 2. Yes it is hard on both partners, but it will be worth the wait. To me if you talk about it & tell your partner that you are not intending on doing anything until you are completely ready, than that person should respect your decision & not push the issue. Men sometimes think if they put you in a certain situation they can con you into doing the deed, but if he's a real gentleman, he will not be pushy & wait. If he doesn't want to, then you don't need him anyway. I am talking from experience, I have had plenty of men wait, & also have made some mistakes of not waiting. I'd rather wait than wake up the next morning & feel like crap & full of regrets. There's so much more to look forward to if you wait!! Also, w/ waiting you feel more comfortable w/ your partner & can explore more & have more fun! :)
do what feels right. If it feels right on the first date, then go for it, but if it doesn't feel right till after 6 months, that's ok too:)
Well, lets going to be honest with ourself considering that we are living into to a modern society that have changed the peoples's values these days. "how long with take us before to sleep with our date", well it is a kind of controversial question, becuase all of us are different humankind and the answer will be realtive to each personal situation.I think that the time is not such a big matter when both person agree to do it, it means that it has not no be forced or push someone to do it. Althought is perferable that before sleept with your date, both of u know to each other very well, after a period of time (short or long term depend of each situation), and of course there must be a mutual attraction and chemestry between both of them, don't forget that we're humans and is normal to feel or desire this kind of needs of be with someone that fulfill our personal needs, and each person have to be responsible for their own acts.
I know that there are people who prefer do not sleep with your date until marriage, well I used to think that too, but honestly is hard to find someone who think in the same way, althought if u find it, it will be something special an unforgetable. Well, I guess that I'm done with my comments for now about this topic, and I respect the differents point of view of each person. Bye for now, and good luck with your personal life,all of us deserve happiness and if u find someone to share it enjoy of it.
I agree with waiting the first anonymous writer... "wait until marraige."
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